Zoomers clearly do not understand intimacy in marriage
This is what happens when a generation gives up on marriage and replaces it with hookup culture.
What is ‘fluid bonding’? Intimate sex act is growing in popularity
“Fluid bonding” — the act of intentionally sharing bodily juices with a sexual partner — is purportedly becoming a popular practice in bedrooms across the nation.
“Usually, unprotected sex is just a sort of casual, barrier-less erotic experience without communication and intention,” sexologist Jenny Skyler told MindBodyGreen.
In contrast, fluid bonding is done with the goal of being “more connected, [or to] have more sensation, intimacy or commitment.”
According to InsideHook, fluid bonding with a partner “is an active, conscious choice” that revolves around consent and intent.
“Fluid bonding is a term that describes a pre-established agreement between two or more people to intentionally go without barriers,” Luna Matatas, the creator of Peg the Patriarchy, told Women’s Health.
Um… this this how normal married people in healthy monogamous relationships have sex.
Every one of my married friends I sent this to was confused as to the difference between “fluid bonding” and regular intimate marital relations.
Then it dawned on me, all of my married friends are about my age, between 35 and 40.
We predate hookup culture. Yes, we tried to get laid in college, but once we graduated, finding a significant other and getting married was the goal. We were all married my our mid 20s. We were either married or in serious relationships before the hookup apps hit the market. Back when we were trying to get lucky, we had to meet other humans in person face to face in a public setting and that had a way of causing emotional attachments.
The Zoomers log on, swipe, have emotionless sex with someone they met for that explicit purpose, and then have to come up with some sort of new sexual act to create a simulacrum of what normal married people of the previous generations do regularly.
It’s like something straight out of Brave New World.
Part if me wants to laugh at the Zoomers for thinking they reinvented sex. The other part of me wants to weep for the Zoomers in realization of how vacuous their interpersonal human connections are having grown up with apps, screens, and social media as a barrier between each one of them.