On chicks with di*ks

I’ve poked the trans issue a little bit, but never did a real post about it.  My wife often acts as my conscience.  She knows people who are trans and is a little bit more “open minded” about trans right.

Then this morning, making my usual rounds through the news, I came across an article that just about hit the nail on the head about all the points I’ve made to my wife, and so decided the time has come to post.

First of all, when it comes to trans people, I don’t hate them.  I don’t consider myself to be transphobic.  I feel nothing but sympathy for them for how hard their life must be living with a mental illness like that.  I know that this is a politically incorrect belief to have, but all the SJW virtue signalling in the universe won’t change some facts.  Among trans people ,the rate of attempted suicide is 41%, this makes it double the rate of suicide attempts among veterans with PTSD.  In fact, the only group in the US that tries to kill themselves as much as trans people are people with schizophrenia.

Trans people also have issues with drug and substance abuse that is three times the rate for non-trans people.  Drug and substance abuse is considered a co-morbidity of metal illness as people tend to “self medicate” with narcotics.  The highest rate of people with HIV is trans people.

The evidence indicates that trans-genderism is still a mental illnes, and the changes made to the DSM V are more political than scientific.  These people need help.

That said, if you want to dress a certain way, cut your hair a certain way, or look a certain way, that’s on you.  You have the freedom to do it.  I don’t care.

The issue is what right do you have to make other people acknowledge your delusion.  If you are a man who thinks you are a woman, and you make your self up to look like a woman, do you have the right to make me agree that you are a women.  I don’t think so.

I have the right to say:

Then you have people like this clearly insane human being who is arguing a man – with a penis – is a woman if he identifies as one, and if (s)he identifies as a lesbian, and other lesbians refuse to have sex with him/her, they are trans-phobic.  Because a woman with a penis is still a woman.

For the most part, this is an academic debate.  What does it matter.

One word: bathrooms.

Progressive companies like Target decided to let trans-people use the bathrooms they identify with.  Obama made the same policy for schools.  North Carolina went the other way, and the NCAA threatened to pull their championship from the state, and California prohibited official travel to states with similar laws.

Yes, I know, trans people need to pee.

But it’s not that simple.

We live in a world where “if you see something, say something.”

Transgender protection laws make us become intentionally stupid.

Incidentally, this is the same thing Liberals do when it comes to saying Islamic terrorism has nothing to do with Islam.

If you are one of the privileged* trans-people that is passing, i.e., other people can’t tell you are trans, and you use the bathroom of the gender you identify as, and nobody notices, and you just do you business and leave… I don’t care, no harm no foul.

*This is just another reason I hat SJWs so much.  Trans-people who pass are more privileged than those who don’t and therefore are slightly less oppressed and that’s problematic.  They can’t help but destroy each other.

But what happens if when a man, that is obviously a man, goes into the ladies room?

When something makes the hairs on the back of your neck stand up, that is a deep, primordial part of your brain screaming “something’s going to eat me” and puffs you up to make you look bigger towards a predator.  Gut feeling is instinct.  It knows things carried in our DNA from a million years of human evolution that our conscious mind ignores.   Our gut is a much better lie detector than our rational brain.

Women who have been told “if you see something, say something,” “trust your instincts,” and “trust your gut,” to keep themselves safe are suddenly being told, that if they are uncomfortable with an Adam’s apple in a wig in the ladies room, when they are at their most vulnerable, they are transphobic bigots.

They have to suppress every instinct of personal safety to be politically correct.  That can’t be anything but dangerous.

That’s been my argument from the beginning.  If a woman, a real woman, or several women, real women, are uncomfortable about the obvious man in the ladies room, he needs to GTFO.

It’s nothing personal.  These women are listening to their guts and their guts are saying:

So when I found this blog post: A MAN IN THE WOMEN’S RESTROOM AT DISNEYLAND.  It was a woman saying everything I’ve been saying for nearly a year.

I didn’t know if I was going to write this blog or not. A part of me was scared it’d be shared as some transgender hot piece about yet another homophobic mom lashing out at Disney and then I’d have to deal with the wrath of the internet telling me to kill myself. So let me be clear. This isn’t that story. This is a story about a biological man in the women’s restroom, but we need to discuss some gender issues…

I was off to the side waiting with the two boys, when I noticed a man walk into the restroom. My first thought was “Oh shit, he’s walked in the wrong restroom by mistake. lol” He took a few more steps, at which point he would’ve definitely noticed all the women lined up and still kept walking. My next thought was, “Maybe he’s looking for his wife…or child and they’ve been in here a while.” But he didn’t call out any names or look around. He just stood off to the side and leaned up against the wall. At this point I’m like, “WTF? Ok there is definitely a very large, burly man in a Lakers jersey who just walked in here. Am I the only one seeing this?” I surveyed the room and saw roughly 12 women, children in tow, staring at him with the exact same look on their faces. Everyone was visibly uncomfortable. We were all trading looks and motioning our eyes over to him…like “What is he doing in here?” Yet every single one of us was silent. And this is the reason I wrote this blog. 

If this had been 5 years ago, you bet your ass every woman in there would’ve been like, “Ummm what are you doing in here?”, but in 2017? The mood has shifted. We had been culturally bullied into silenced. Women were mid-changing their baby’s diapers on the changing tables and I could see them shifting to block his view. But they remained silent. I stayed silent. We all did. Every woman who exited a stall and immediately zeroed right in on him…said nothing. And why? B/c I and I’m sure all the others were scared of that “what if”. What if I say something and he says he “identifies as a woman” and then I come off as the intolerant asshole at the happiest place on earth? So we all stood there, shifting in our uncomfortableness…trading looks. I saw two women leave the line with their children. Still nothing was said. An older lady said to me out loud, “What is he doing in here?” I’m ashamed to admit I silently shrugged and mouthed, “I don’t know.” She immediately walked out, from a bathroom she had every right to use without fear.

 1,000% yes.  Every woman in that bathroom was afraid of the man, but more afraid of being called a transphobe for being afraid of the man.

If I were there watching a man go into the ladies room after my wife and child, I’d be pondering if I could make a prison shiv out of the wooden stick from my Mickey’s Premium Ice Cream Bar.  I’ve never killed a man with a Popsicle stick before, but I sure as shit would have ready to try.

Each and every one of us is our own last line of defense.

Creating protected classes of people, where any suspicion of anyone that looks like them is bigotry, makes us more unsafe.


7 Replies to “On chicks with di*ks”

  1. In my opinion, Western Culture is rooted in the Christian tradition established by the “Great Commission”—where as Christ instructed his followers to go out into the world, preach the Gospel, heal the sick and cast out demons, Western Culture has always adapted these commands in that we have sought to enlighten/educate the less advanced, treat illness and develop cures for numerous diseases, and to change or remove those from our midst that can not–due to possibly metaphorical demons–control their lust to prey on, maim, and kill the innocent. This process was considered progress, to move the entire world from a primitive existence, from illiterate to literate, from disease ridden to disease free, from cultures ruled by those with demonic like intent to cultures self-ruled in a democratic society. Admittedly this process was not without problems regardless of its good intent. Likewise the agenda of a counter culture (one that has been indoctrinated to hate the accomplishments of their progenitors even though the positive accomplishments of the past obviously outweigh the failures) no matter how grand the end result appears to be to the individual SJW–their dreamed of future, the underlying agenda is to destroy the very fabric of our society. Transgenderism is but one of the tools used by the opposing force as a sort of “psy-ops” to divide our people.
    As you pointed out, when a man enters a restroom full of women, the natural innate fear of a predator begins a process in which eventually either women will accept this unnatural occurrence or refuse to go out into public choosing to remain in a safe place. And while as so many have pointed out some transgender people have the “privilege” of being able to fool most if not all, most do have this ability due to physical attributes that can not be surgically changed.
    Perhaps the bottom line is how do we establish who is legitimately trans and who is entering the womens room for nefarious purposes. Do we require everyone to go before a board of medical and psychological doctors to be “licensed” as either male or female? Require everyone to be adjudged as gender conforming or nonconforming? Then issue everyone with a ID card that can be swiped at the restroom door, denying access to those not of the appropriate gender? If so how do we provide a means for the so called gender fluid who one day might want to urinate in the mens room and the ladies room during the next day?
    Traditional Gender determination by biology at birth is the only rational course, any other possible action only leads to social anarchy. To continue along the current path is not progress but a step backward to a more primitive time.


  2. Anyone that wants to chop pieces of themselves off to pretend to be another gender is clearly mentally ill. We are both biologically AND socially geared to be protective of females and children. As the males of a sexually dimorphic species, our animal brains scream bloody murder at the thought of a mentally ill person with the power of a male body alone with our females in a secluded area with one easily blocked exit.

    There are only two viable sexes. There are some that are biologically abnormal, but they cannot produce children in any way different from the male/female cycle. Yet, universities allow departments that scream that this very basic science is a lie. I can humor some folks, like Erin, who has earned respect, but at the same time, I know that all trans women are biological males. They can never be more than an actors and also long as trans folk understand that deep down, I find them tolerable. I will never be a fucking Space Marine in Ceramite armor with chainsword and bolter and most CERTAINLY never have my harem of Strike Witches(Eila is best girl). It is a fiction and to cosplay as a Space Marine is harmless. To try to implant extra hearts and shit… That’s crazy as fuck! Would anyone trust me if I tried that? No one HAS to humor you. Tolerance is as simple as allowing something to exist in there.


  3. The whole thing with the bathrooms is entirely ridiculous. I mean, does there really need to be a law?

    As a “cis” male, I have a perfect solution for this. If you are trans, bigendered, or whatever, and you in doubt, just use the men’s room. As a representative for the male gender, I extend an olive branch for all peoples, trans or not, to use the men’s room.

    I figure it this way, if there is a person who appears “manly” and enters the women’s room, most of the other women there will be appalled, and maybe some will contact the authorities and there will be a hooplah about women being put in danger.

    If a person who appears “womanly” and enters the men’s room, the men won’t care. The men will think “boy she really needed to go!”, or they’ll say “ah, so that is probably one of them ‘trans women!'” and then judge on how convincing the person passed as a man. But no man will report this to the authorities, as men have better things to do than worry about if some person with the wrong wee tools is using the men’s toilet to go take a dump.

    So that’s my take on it. If in doubt, use the men’s room. We don’t care — honestly!

    Easy solution.


  4. Restrooms are not the worst of it. Locker Rooms are. Imagine your wife or child, naked and vulnerable taking a shower. The unease and embarrassment alone is enough reason. Or aren’t their feelings important?

    On the civil rights front, Blacks now want to go back to segregated facilities. Blacks only college clubs, Blacks only organizations. Maybe we should? Maybe VOLUNTARY segregation by race and sex will make a comeback?


  5. Any pervert with a penis (no matter how they are dressed) who tries to enter the ladies room with my wife and daughters will get their “reassignment” surgery via my EDC knife at no cost.

    So many deviants are trying to take advantage of this insanity that we have to crush it now. I will not tolerate the intolerable. I will not comply with the insane.



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