And she is gone. December 25th 2019, 07:43am.
She was a child of the Spanish Civil War and the truly backward customs of the era. She ran from the sheer poverty of a Spain post Civil War and WWII that made many like her emigrate to other places She also survived Cuba under both Fascism and Communism and all she built in Venezuela was swallowed again by Communism. Let’s say she hated both of the sides and managed to pass that gene to me.
But she lived he last almost two decades in the US, with her son and “daughter” (She always called my wife “her daughter” which sometimes made for embarrassing moments during introductions) as free as she could be. Made friends with people who did not speak the same language and above all she lived in peace. Whereas in Venezuela she ended up living behind tall compound-like walls topped with razor wire and barred windows, the only thing between her and the street here was the pane of glass on her window.
She loved us deeply, she lived fully and she died painless. In the end, is something we all should aspire to when the time comes. I am sure she is now with dad making sure he is well dressed and well behaved up there. Kinda sorry for pops though, his vacation in Heaven is over.
Condolences Sir.
Condolences on your loss.
Peace be with you.
Not sure why that phrase is what comes to mind. You and yours have been in our prayers.
Grieve freely and know the pain will last longer than you expect. Take care of yourself.
Condolences, Miguel.
Wow, a really tough day to lose a loved one.
A salute to a fantastic woman. I hope that when you think of her it brings more smiles to your face than tears.
Vaya Con Dios.
Our condolences and prayers for you and your family
You and my family have our condolences and prayers.
Sounds like she was a wonderful lady. May she rest easy.
You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers. To a life well lived and those she touched.
So sorry to hear, Miguel.
The next few days will be the roughest, but the prayers of dozens are bathing you. Keep your focus on the good things.
Sorry for your loss. When you think about it, what a blessing it is to live a full life and pass on peacefully, around family.
She was born roughly around when my mom was. Sad thing is that generation knew hardship, and even though they would tell us how things were, many don’t listen. As bad as things get for me, I smile when I think of what my mom would say.
But they made us who we are, and we pass pieces of them along. I’m already using my moms lines on the grandkids. When they are older, I’ll tell them about her.
So they never are really gone.
Sorry for your loss.
So very sorry for your loss!
Sorry for your loss. My family has always dealt with loss through humor. With that in mind, take heart in knowing that where your mother is now, she will never have to speak with the godless communists who made portions of her life so difficult.
I am sorry to hear this.
My prayers beseech The Higher Power for solace for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. Words never seem to do justice for thoughts I want to convey. it sounds as if mom lived a very full life and she got to see you turn into a good person. What more can a parent ask for.
My deep and sincere condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Prayers for you and yours in your time of loss.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Rest in peace.
Miguel, I can’t tell you how sorry I am. I can’t imagine what you’re feeling today but I’ll probably be feeling it soon as well. Yesterday I visited my almost 88 year old mom at the nursing home and couldn’t help thinking how frail she was. I’m so sorry for your loss. God bless her, and you, and your wife in this sad time.
My condolences to you and your Family.
My condolences and prayers. She sounds like she was a great lady.
As has been expressed by many others before me, I’m sadden to learn of your mom’s passing, but at least you knew that her time was near, and that she died peacefully. I’ve enjoyed your frequent comments about her time with you, her cooking, and now the times that she lived through. Twenty years with you has been some, if not most, of her happiest years of life. A time of grief is needed, but it will pass. Your fond memories of her will always remain with you and be treasures for you forever.
Bye Mom!
All of us here in the GFZ are going to feel your loss. The world is a smaller place because if it.
Miguel. Thanks for sharing with us what little bits you did. Your mom was a wonderful woman, and our condolences, thoughts, and prayers are with you, and your family.
Brother:
What a lovely note.
What a day for her Homegoing.
Our prayers are with you and your family; you are a fitting tribute to her life.
I feel like I just lost a beloved, if distantly related, aunt … I never knew her, but you’ve shared so much of her with us over the years that it felt like I did.
Deepest condolences from me and the rest of the GFZ chattering ninnies.
My condolences to you and your family Miguel
My heart-felt condolences, sir. I know your pain.
May choirs of angels sing her welcome…
Thoughts and prayers for all of you. Know that she’s gone to an even better place, and remember the good.
What a eulogy and she sounds like an amazing person. My condolences for your loss. May she rest in peace.
Sorry for your loss.
Baruch dayan emet. I am sorry for your loss.
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
My condolences for your loss, Miguel.
May the blessings of the Lord, thy God, and his son, Jesus, bring blessings and comfort for you and your family, Miguel. Look to the Lord, for he will comfort thy grief, and sadness….
Your friend, always…
Taz…
All my sympathy from the left coast.
Condolences.
My condolences. It’s really tough to lose a parent.
What a beautiful lady, and what a beautiful tribute. She was blessed to have you, and you were blessed to have her. My heartfelt condolences and prayers, for you and all of the family. God be with you all.
So sorry for your loss.
Condolences to you and the rest of your family.
I hope to go quietly in my sleep like my dad. Not screaming in terror like the passengers in his car.
All my best to you and yours.
Sorry for your loss.
May God hold her in the peaceful palm of His hand and give her rest.
And may He strengthen you Miguel, during this time.
May God hold her in the peaceful palm of his hand and give her rest.
And may be strengthen you, Miguel.
Be in peace. Blessings upon her and you and your wife. God is in charge and has a plan.
Tom762
‘Condolences’ may be the right word, but it just doesn’t seem to cut it.
My condolences Miguel.
Fair winds and following seas.
Tu y yo tenemos la misma herencia de Espa/na y Cuba. I really enjoyed how you would bring her alive through your blog and it resonated with me so beautifully. Tu amor por tu mama es muy evidente y nuestra cultura sale a flote por el respeto que le tenemos a los mayores de nuestras familias. Que Dios la tenga en Su Gloria. Continua celebrando su vida a traves de tu respeto y amor por ella. Saludos hermano….
My condolences. You and your family are in my prayers.