If you have spent any time around children you might have seen a kid say something like “if I can’t have/play with it, nobody will.”
This person needs to lose weight.
She’s probably been told that a lot.
Rather than do the hard work of self discipline, diet, and exercise, she would rather burn down the freedoms and excesses of Western Civilization that made low cost, abundant food available to her.
This is the defining characteristic of two generations of Leftist: “I am unhappy that I can’t discipline myself to achieve the things that I want so I’m going to destroy society so that nobody will be happy and successful.”
Clipping others’ wings because you cannot yourself fly.
Oh, are we back to ‘fat is beautiful’ again? After 4 yrs of fatshaming Trump?
I’m fat. I was over weight pre panic but I gained enough so that I’m now, in my own mind, fat.
It is easy to get fat. It is harder to lose weight. I fight my own static, I don’t want to get up and do. I always have a reason to not exercise.
But it got to bad. I was having issues with getting around. Getting up. Everything gets worse.
So I made two changes to help solve the issue, for me. First I have been getting on the exercise bike every weekday. I went from 5 minutes is hard and barely making it to 30minutes on a “program” is not only something I can do, but I do do. Mentally it is still a struggle. The mind game I’m currently playing is: You know you can do 20 minutes. So get yourself halfway to 20 before you consider stopping. Oh, you are at the 10 minute mark, you can do another 5 and get to the halfway mark. Oh, 5 more and you are on the down side of the program. And then I find I’ve done 30 minutes and feel better.
And the change is every where in my life. I’m more willing to get up and do. I’m more willing to go outside just to talk to my lady when she is in the garden. Life is better.
The second major issue in my life is my wife loves to bake and loves to cook. She grew up in a household where her parents were skinny and she was not. So her parents put her on all the fad diets growing up. To the point where she was always hungry. For her food is love, love is food. If she isn’t feeding you, then she isn’t showing you love.
This means that she can’t make a simple meal. If she’s making lunch, it isn’t just a sandwich, it is a sandwich with chips and something else.
My change was to buy some 9in dinner plates. This was the size our grandparents used. Most households use 11in or 11.5in plates.
Making my wife limit serving sizes to what fits on my 9in plate has actually worked. The first breakfast she prepared she ended up using a second plate for the bacon and had to “stack” things on my plate.
Now she is to the point were it is only one plate full.
And I find I’m not eating as much and I’m not “cleaning my plate, because”. My plate *is* clean and if I’m not full, I can drink some more water and wait 30 minutes.
It can be done, it isn’t easy, but it is what has to be done to keep going.
Therefore,
Congratulations on your new and hopefully much better life. I pray you and your wife live a long and healthy life.
This bit about “I can’t control myself so instead I want to control everyone else” bit is a familiar problem. Some years ago I saved this excellent example:
‘I had a liberal colleague giving me grief about guns and that gun owners are crazy, so I just put the question to her – if someone handed you a loaded gun, what would you do with it? She said “I’d look for someone to shoot”. I told her “That’s the difference between me and you – I’d be looking to be sure it was pointed toward a safe place. You’re the one that needs professional help, not me.”‘ — Martin Fischer, Conestoga College (on the bearingarms.com blog)
Another one that doesn’t appreciate the blessings of living in the west. From her familial name, she needs to return to the homeland and experience the reality check of a 3rd world country.
To end oikophobia, we need to dismantle University education, says Portland resident Ish.
Thar she blows!
Out of morbid curiosity, I put Rashatwar’s name into Google, just to see if I could find any serious scholarly work… I gave up after reading the very first link, which was to Rashatwar’s own website. Some highlights, all quoting directly from their page:
• There are five bullet-pointed phrases at the top of the page to describe Rashatwar’s clinical practice. The fifth is “Donut Lover.”
• Sonalee Rashatwar (they/he) … they are a superfat queer bisexual non-binary therapist and co-owner.
• [T]heir notoriety first peaked … for naming thinness as a white supremacist beauty ideal.
• Disability is a natural part of the human experience[.]
• I integrate politicized conversations into my therapeutic work.
He also felt it relevant to his medical practice to include a video of him eating onion-rings covered in jalapeño ranch dip while chewing with his mouth open…
So, needless to say, I decided I wasn’t interested in any formal medical papers they might have published.
The solution to her problem is a peanut-butter-and-cyanoacrylate sandwich.
And a Richard Simmons poster that says “Go Exercise, Fat@$$!”
End Western Civilization?
That Morbidly Obese Slug will be dead from Violence, Pestilence, or Starvation in a few short months. So will about 5 BILLION of the people on Earth.