Since a common line of verbal attack against Republican senators is “believe surviovrs” I thought I’d give my survivor credentials.
I am completely serious here, I am not being mocking or sarcastic.
I was, by current standards, sexually assaulted in college.
I was in my third year, I was in another dorm room, there were a few of us guys in the room, we were drinking, watching a movie, and joking around.
One of the guys there was gay and a year older than me. I was carrying on and he must of misinterpreted my joking and he stuck his hand down my pants and grabbed me by the boys.
My response was something like “Dude, you’re barking up the wrong tree.”
He said something like “you’re sure?”
I said something like “yeah.”
He pulled out his hand and apologized.
I know that this will not count among the SJW crowd because:
- I’m a man and my lived experience doesn’t matter
- I was a straight man victimized by a gay man and that doesn’t happen
- I was not emotionally traumatized by this
- I don’t consider myself a victim.
It was more awkward than anything else, but it happened. Really.
I still think that without corroboration or evidence of Dr. Ford’s allegations, there is no reason to not confirm Kavanauagh to the Supreme Court.
That only proves that you are a homophobe 😀
HAHAHAHA… I’ll tell them
It happens, my (at the time) future college roommate was in a local watering hole when a gay man tried to pick him up. As far as I know there was no inappropriate touching, but the future roomie was a bit weirded out for a couple of days.
Ok, here’s my “survivor” story- my last wife was an alcholic and smoked weed. First couple years it was mildly entertaining. Last couple it became verbally and physically abusive. To make a short story long- I was physically assaulted 3 times by her.Multiple Cuts, black eye( twice) multiple bruises. Now I am 6 foot 4 250 pounds. I COULD have beat the shit outta her … 3rd times the charm, i packed up and left divorced her, built a new house a new life and met my REAL wife. I walked away and learned a valuable lesson
Oh and Ive been hit on by gay men , I just laughed