1. Truth be told, if they want to do it? They are adults.
   Should we cancel them? No, we are not SJWs.

   BUT do I condemn the ruling of the school?
   No. It’s a catholic school. You literally get what you pay for.

   Let them deal with the aftermath without wishing an internet cancel mob unto their employers. Draw the line at the catholic school.

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   1. I never said cancel them. I agree with the school’s decision. I’m just laying out all ramifications I can think of.

      I think this couple was nuts thinking they could sell erotic images on the internet and not have it affect their regular day life.

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   2. Without “wishing upon them” a cancel mob going after their clients and employers, it’s not unreasonable to acknowledge that there are consequences for this lady being an internet cam girl — consequences her whole family will have to deal with.

      Consequences they should have considered before starting the OnlyFans account.

      When you enroll your kids in Catholic school (or any private school, really), there are behavioral standards that apply to the whole family. The school provides them to you up front, before you pay tuition.

      In any “real” job, there are behavioral standards that apply to your on- and off-work hours — the company doesn’t want its employees’ mis-deeds reflecting back on the company — and guidelines as to what kinds of “second jobs” and “additional income” sources are allowed. (I knew a guy who literally wasn’t allowed to eat Pringles chips; he was a driver for Frito-Lay and they didn’t want to chance one of their workers being pictured eating the competition.) These standards are provided at the time of hire.

      And those are separate from the “social” implications: Will the kids’ friends’ parents still want their kids to hang out at the house of a known cam girl? Will the kids’ friends be making comments about Mom’s “second job”? Will Dad’s golf buddies be making “hot wife” comments on the links? Will Mom’s friends want anything to do with her (and will their husbands maybe want a little too much to do with her)?

      None of this is to say she shouldn’t do it. They are adults and they can do what they want as long as it’s not hurting others.

      But every action (or inaction) has consequences, and they won’t be limited to the school whether we “wish” them or not.

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2. Hotwife? That means that she is cuckolding her husband.

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3. Presumably, she knew what the rules for the Catholic School were when the kids were enrolled. I don’t particularly have a problem with her exposing herself for money, but she knew or should have known what the consequences of her actions would be.

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4. “When you enroll your kids in Catholic school (or any private school, really), there are behavioral standards that apply to the whole family.”

   Hell, when I was a kid in elementary school, if your parents got a divorce, you could no longer be a student in the institution. It got changed much later

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5. 150 grand a month??? Honey! C mere a minute, I need help settin up a website…. no no leave the hat on…….(joe cocker reference) ….. if ya gonna be dumb ya better be tuff. Good for the school keepin up morals.

6. I’m of two minds about this. They should have considered the consequences and most of the points made above. But kicking the kids out for the sins of the parents is the same kind of evil as blaming all white people alive today for something that happened 150 years before I was born. And cancel mobs are more evil. I’m with Kissinger on this one, It’s a pity they can’t all lose…

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7. I understand and agree with all the arguments in the article.
   However, at $150k/month, why do either of them need their regular gigs?
   That’s about $50k more every month than we as a family make in a year.
   In 26 months she’s make as much as I will in the next 50 years. Some shrewd financial management and they’re set for life in a little over 2 years.

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8. My kids went to Catholic grade school. They were very open that they were there to augment the parents job of bringing their kids up in the faith, That they didn’t exist to install something that wasn’t there in the home. Basically, kids learned from example, and if you weren’t setting that example you were wasting a catholic education, then you’re kid would be kicked out and the next one on the waiting list (there’s always one) would get the slot.

   The world doesn’t need more cafeteria catholics.

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9. “How do you think they would like hearing “I rubbed one out to your mom last night” from classmates in high school?”

   Hahaha…I missed that on first pass. That would totally happen.

   Dude in my neighborhood had a hot mom that was in playboy.

   We all saw it. Let’s say the copy got…uh…dog eared…

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10. Cause no one had a milf before the internet existed. I literally would sing Stacy’s Mom to my friends, replacing Stacy with his name, to break his balls about his mom being hot AND her liking me.

    I too am torn, private institution and what not, but just like this kind of stuff gets you fired up JKB, people and institutions think they can control me outside of my association with them gets me fired up, and that right there is where I think kicking the kids out is very unchristian.

    1. Part of going to a parochial school is that you are to live the values the school teaches.

       Otherwise what is the point?

       If you are going to go to a Catholic school to be a good Catholic, don’t make porn. It’s not just the kids but the family.

       There was a Jewish school near where I grew up that required the families to be kosher at home.

       A private school education is a privilege.

       If she wants to send her kids to a private school that won’t have a problem with her extracurricular activities, she us free and try to find one.

       I think part of it is that she refused to stop making porn. She wanted to keep her kids in school and have a side job as a cam girl. Can’t have your cake and eat it too.

       1. Clearly we are never going to see eye to eye on this, but I don’t think anyone has any right to regulate conduct outside of the participation in their business/school/etc. I see why they think they would since living by Catholic values is part of that participation, and I see why people would agree, but you can’t put the sins of the parents onto the children, and to me, that is very unchristian. But hey, Catholic church and all, if they didn’t have double standards, they wouldn’t have any.

          I think this point holds up especially since you don’t even need to be Catholic to attend these schools, at least in my area; there are many Jews that attend our premier Catholic high schools since the education is significantly better than any public schools. If you don’t even need to be Catholic, what is the point of enforcing requirements on some but not others?

11. “I guess not wanting to stop is part of the problem.”

    At $150,000/month I’d say they have a good reason not to want to stop, especially if the family is ok with it. If they can keep that up for a couple of years they will be set for life. I know lots of people who would do much worse for that kind of money.

    It sucks their kids got kicked out but with that kind of cash I think they will be able to find a new school. A hefty enough donation and even the Catholic school may take them back. You’d be amazed what institutions will overlook when big money is involved.

    “That’s right, call the dad who found it a creep. Good job.”

    I’m not surprised someone in her social circle found out but yea, the dad basically admitted to watching porn. That’s not something you stumble on while looking for new meatloaf recipes. Watching porn is not the same as making it but is a little bit hypocritical to condemn porn makers when you are a porn consumer.

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