From Buzzfeed:
“We’re In Hard Times Right Now.” Meet The Nursing Students Turning To OnlyFans To Get By.
Yesterday I covered how the lockdowns that effectively shut down hospitals for all but COVID have harmed or killed countless cancer patients by delaying diagnosis or treatment.
All the way back in April, I wrote a post about the budget shortfalls that were hitting hospitals because of these lockdown measures. Medical staff were being furloughed or laid off because to make room for the tidal wave of COVID patients who were going to be dying in the hallways from a ventilator shortage (which never materialized outside of a couple of hospitals in NYC), oncology, orthopedics, cardiology, and other departments were deemed less essential than liquor stores.
Buzzfeed decided to track down some of these nurses.
When Clara thinks about balancing her business as a sex worker and her life as a nursing student, she tries to channel the Disney character Hannah Montana.
In the show, the main character Miley Stewart seems like a normal teenager, but she has a double life as pop star Hannah Montana, and Clara said keeping her own identities separate is the key.
“Hannah Montana,” said Clara, 20, who asked to keep her last name private over concerns about discrimination. “Best of both worlds, but you keep them separate. You don’t mix business with pleasure.”
Clara, who goes to college in Florida, was working in the university hospital as a patient care assistant until she said at least a dozen nurses caught the coronavirus, and the hospital changed staffing, leaving Clara without a job. Without a paycheck and bills to pay, she decided to open an account on OnlyFans, a site known for homemade pornography. It’s been a hectic couple of months for Clara, and even with the TV character in the back of her head, she said it’s still been a challenge to manage it all.
Once something is out on the internet you can’t take it back. I know she says that she tries to separate her internet peepshow life separate from her nursing career, but I don’t think that is as possible as she thinks it is.
Stories of young women paying their way through school with sex work are nothing new, but in the seven months since the WHO declared the coronavirus to be a pandemic, online sex work — often left out of discussions of ride-hailing and food delivery apps — has become an increasingly mainstream facet of the gig economy, and people like Clara say the risks are worth it to keep themselves afloat.
The Left is out to destroy society and normalizing sex work, even using the phrase “sex work,” the way they do is a massive leap in that direction.
There is a substantial difference between serving someone coffee as a barista and masturbating on command on a webcam.
Commoditizing sex strips turns one of the deepest and most important of emotional human connections into a meaningless and superficial business transaction. It actually makes the ugly attitude of incels mainstream, that women are a commodity and sex is something transactional. Where I disagree with the Left is that this also hurts women, who come to see men as just a source of cash for sex.
In the spring, when cities across the country were cheering each night to celebrate healthcare workers as heroes, Michelle Bleimeyer was fired from her job as a home-care nurse.
Bleimeyer got her nursing degree in 2009, and said it was hard to find a job in the aftermath of the Great Recession. “I was panicking because my student loans were coming due, and I wound up really liking [home care],” she said.
She knew about OnlyFans from Twitter and decided to open an account when she realized the money she was getting from unemployment wasn’t enough to live on.
In many ways, this is how sex work has always functioned. “People who were not sex workers started using OnlyFans and became sex workers due to losing their other jobs during COVID-19. So, again you see sex work, as it often is, as a sort of gig of last resort for people,” said sex worker rights advocate Kate Zen. “This is the way it’s always been. Not just during this pandemic. For a lot of the people … sex work is not necessarily their only occupation, or the main occupation even, it’s this emergency source of informal income that they can get when they’re in a bind.”
Sex isn’t just another part of the gig economy. A vagina isn’t like a car, where you just sign up for Uber and share it with anyone willing to pay for a ride. That is the soulless destruction of human intimacy.
I really can’t imagine the emotional transformation that happens in a person when they go from helping a child with a chromosomal disorder to making fetish porn for tips.
While the notion of sex work itself may be new to many users, Clara and others said posting on the site didn’t feel like a huge leap because the content is not that different from what they’re already posting on Twitter or Instagram.
That is a major problem right there. I have never taken a selfie and I am proud of that. Social media only started when I was in college and I missed the Twitter craze because I had already cut the Facebook cord before that came along. The idea of posting images of myself, especially risque ones, online is very alien to me. I actually work hard to avoid pictures of myself online. If you knew my real name, you’d find exactly one picture of me, it’s my LinkedIn profile.
These women are clearly of a younger generation than myself, where posting bikini pics is such a regular occurrence, they have been desensitized to the point where showing their tits is just a small step.
The internet has made us a society of voyeurs and exhibitionists.
Nikki, another nursing student who is based in Detroit and also asked to go by the name she uses on her OnlyFans account for privacy reasons, had a similar perspective.
Nikki decided to go back to school for a nursing program in May, after dropping out of college a few years ago when she got injured in a lacrosse game. She said she’s always wanted to be a nurse, but the tuition fees are based on her father’s salary even though he’s not paying for school.
“I’ve heard nothing but bad things about student loans… I just don’t do the payments. I never have, I never really want to,” she said. “I think it’s stupid to pay extra for something I could just pay for now and pay less. Interest is crazy on school loans especially.”
If you see nothing wrong with “I wanted to be a nurse so I’m going to pay for that by showing men my crotch online,” I can’t help you. I don’t know how that woman could ever expect to have a normal, healthy relationship after that. Not to mention the risk that a patient will know of her from her OnlyFans fame.
Nikki — who was working as an Uber driver before she started on OnlyFans — said making money from online sex work has made her life easier.
What did I say about sex and Uber above?
Mia decided to pursue work as a certified nursing assistant after caring for her grandfather, who had Alzheimer’s disease, and she had been doing the work for nine years before she was laid off in April.
“I used to care for my grandad back in 2011. When he passed away, my boyfriend at the time was saying, ‘You know you could go to school for this type of stuff,’” she said. “I [was] basically trying to fill that void because I had spent almost two years every day taking care of him because he lived next door to me.”
She said she’s always wanted to pursue a nursing degree, but between work and family obligations there had never been enough time. Since she’s only working about two hours a day on OnlyFans right now, she’s using the extra time to enroll in a nursing program.
“I want to help people with Alzheimer’s, but I’m going to get there through pornography.”
Clara has gone back to work in the hospital again and was doing sex work alongside her work as a patient care assistant, but she tested positive for COVID-19 after working with a patient who had it last week and is stuck at home again while she and her boyfriend recover.
She said the experience of working both jobs has been eye-opening.
“Just because I’m someone who’s basically a cam girl doesn’t mean that I deserve less than anybody else. People have to stop being so judgmental. We’re in hard times right now. The way people choose to support themselves is their own business,” she said.
“If it’s not hurting you, then why is it such a big deal?”
Because it harms society.
Because it decreases the quality of human interaction.
Because it accelerates the alienation of human beings who only see one another as transactional sex objects.
Because how are you supposed to have a husband and children and a happy life when there are webcam videos of you selling yourself for tips?
The long term damage is not worth the short term payoff.
How long until “doing OnlyFans to get through the Lockdown and pay for school” turns into “don’t bother with a career, just do OnlyFans.”
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